To Whoever find and read this page This is the story of my life and my actual situation. I've tried everything else to try save my
family from our financial situation but nothing workedThis website is my last try I thought that telling you what is going on with us
right now would maybe help and that maybe someone outthere will hear our prayers. My name is Joe Evans, I was married 2 times
before my current wife Barbara. My first ex wife has my oldest boy Joey which is now 19yrs old and live with his mother. My
second ex wife has 4 other children Ben 17yrs old, Jessie 14yrs old, Abby 10yrs old and Noel 8yrs old. My current wife has her
son which is 8yrs old and our daughter Jasmin with 2yrs old. I am desperated at this time. i thought that ex wives were supposed to
still be friends as you have kids and I believe that children needs both parents in their lives but this never worked with my 2nd wife.
She always had the full custody of the kids which she gained with lies and schemes but I had my visitation rights which were not as
good as I wish but I got to visit my children. Before I was only allowed to see my children every saturday for 4 hours at her house.
When I got married again with my current wife Delicia my 2nd ex wife decided that I would no longer be able to visit my kids as she
did not like (without even know) my wife. Few months has passed and something good happend my 2nd ex wife called at christmas
time in 1999 and told me that I could pick my kids up to spend christmas day with us if I wanted. For us was something unusual as
she is always shemes something but we did picked my kids and had a lovely day together. After that we talked and my 2nd wife
decided that we could have the kids every other weekend which was Great but all this and thats my boys Ben 17, and Jessie 14
decided this last october 2001 that they wanted to live with me. They talked with their mother and she said that was ok for them to
that. They moved out of their mom's house and since october 19, 2001 they are with us since they used to live in one county and
We lived in another county they school wouldn't allow them to keep going there without me having to pay for tuitions and fees. So
we had to visit a lawyer at the legal aid to see what would be possible on doing. They advised us that since their mother had full
custody we would have to file for custody modification so that way we could transfer the boys to a school close to our house.
This really made their mother really angry and at this time we are fixing to go back to court to fight for the boys. On top of all this
the company I have been working for 6yrs in financial trouble and they are trying their best to keep their employees but a lot has
happend and thousands of people have got a pink sleep. Since I work with a small group of guys that work for them as maintaining
their equipment we are the last in line to be without a job. All of this comes with a price of getting voluntary Lay off until the
beginning of January 2002 without pay. We live on a 1974 mobile home which I am buying on land contract and since we live on a
rural zone car is extremely necessary to get anywhere So we have car payments with that comes car insurance on top of all comes all
the utilities and now we are 6 people on a 3bedroom mobile home. Very small. the house has its own problems as the floor is bad
and I have to keep adding a piece of board here and there. This winter we have been using kerosene to keep us warm as we can not
afford to buy gas for the furnace. Our water heater went bad and we do not have hot water so we use to put a pot of water to
heat up on top of the Kerosene heater so that way my kids can take a bath. We tried to get loans to refinance my place atleast to
get away from one bill but we have filed bankruptcy last year and at the present time our credit looks bad. Our car we are forced
to keep as at the time of the bankruptcy I made the mistake of sign what they call Re-affirmation letter and we are forced to keep
the car. We can not trade it in for something else because they all tell us that we owe too much on it. nobody will buy it because its
too expensive in another words we are stocked with it.
I am behind on my house payments my car payments and everything including utilities. The only utility that I made arrangement on it
is Eletric bill so that way we can atleast have lights and my refrigerator working. we had tried put all my bills on Credit management
counseling but look at my situation I am now making liquid after taxes 465.00 a week I am obligated to pay support for my kids one
ex wife is 50.00 even tho my son is 19yrs old. Indiana state requires until age 21. I pay 183.00 a week to my second ex wife and plus
We are not having money to buy food. we have been making on eating lots of beans and fried potatoes my little baby is the only
one that has ramen noodles and milk to eat and drink.
We barelly have money for gasoline. I don't know what else to do. If you are reading this and Would feel like trying to help us out
Please Send anything amount of money you want to send $1.00 One Dollar if you want or anything.
please try to help us because I don't know what else to do.
If you want to help please send your kind donation to
4885 East 380 South
Dupont, IN 47231
I will Really Appreciate your help so Very much.
I already thank you for taking the time to read my story. and If you wish email us at Theevansfamilly@cs.com